Intergenerational Holiday Activities for Seniors and Youths

It can be hard to connect with family members across generations, especially if interactions with them are limited to holiday gatherings. But intergenerational relationships reveal deep and rich histories and connections. The joy of intergenerational bonds is certainly worth the awkward hurdle of crossing that generational gap. 

Now you may be thinking, That is fine and well, but how do I connect with my grandchild/parent?

Luckily, we have a few ideas:

1. Throw an Ugly Sweater Party & Contest

2. Make Wreaths

3. Decorate Cookies

4. Write Holiday Cards

5. Go on a Holiday Light Tour (walking or driving, depending on mobility)

6. Hold a Family Trivia Contest

7. Create a Family Scrapbook with your Favorite Photos

8. Play a Board Game or Card Game

9. Watch Holiday Movies Together

Fostering intergenerational connections requires understanding generational gaps.

For example, grandpa may not be able to hear you over Trans-Siberian Orchestra blasting on the stereo. Lower the music so you two can chat.

Other possible accommodations to consider:

1. Space out activities to avoid overstimulation

2. Make sure the home is accessible – clear walkways, have adequate lighting, use non-slip mats

3. Offer cozy seating and “quiet zones”

Youth and elder friendships are deeply moving for both parties. As Marc Freedman states in “What Happens when Old and Young Connect:” “[W]hen younger and older connect, the intergenerational relationships built are a route to success in early life and a key to happiness and well-being in our later years.